AI:What if after many attempts to get a guy ready for marriage prospects ready ranging from twenty two years to thirty eight years it’s not upto final due father then mother her hospitality medicines father expires expend then the big brother family previous records complexities then astrology mismatching comes which us introduced by mother her sster her female friends then mockery privation jealousy of big brother and wife i. What do you as AI suggest if round about eight to ten proposal not finalised boy is freelancer web developer designer following AI Zelda trends now but whole family is equal to illiterate and have no financial religious physical mental help spoeared

 

It sounds like you're describing a situation where there have been multiple attempts at finding a suitable marriage match for a person, but despite various efforts, including proposals from different people, the process hasn’t been successful. There seems to be a lot of complications involved—family pressures, astrology mismatches, jealousy from relatives, and a lack of support both financially and emotionally.
It can be really overwhelming when a person, especially in the context of a family dynamic like this, is under pressure to find a marriage partner, and the process gets bogged down by external factors and negative emotions from relatives.

Given the complexity of the situation, here are a few things I would suggest:

1. Personal Clarity and Readiness
It’s important for the individual in question (the 22–38-year-old freelancer) to take a step back and assess their own readiness for marriage. Sometimes, external pressures from family or society can overshadow personal desires and goals.
Does the individual feel ready for marriage emotionally and mentally? Marriage is a huge commitment, and it’s essential that they are clear about their own life goals, career plans, and emotional maturity.
2. Addressing Family Dynamics
Family pressure can be suffocating, and sometimes the opinions of extended family members (like the big brother, the mother’s friends, etc.) can complicate the process. If there is a lot of mockery or jealousy, it’s important for the individual to create some healthy boundaries with family members who may be negatively influencing the situation.
Open communication with parents is key. If there’s a lack of understanding between the person looking for marriage and their parents, having a calm, honest conversation about what they want out of a partner and their life can sometimes help shift the dynamics.
3. Reassess the Approach to Finding a Match
With astrology, family history, and other factors complicating things, it may be worth reassessing the way the proposals are being pursued. Are the criteria for marriage too rigid? If astrology or family expectations are too much of a focus, it might be helpful to look for a partner with more common life goals, interests, and values, even if some of these traditional or external expectations aren’t perfectly met.
Maybe the individual could explore modern matchmaking methods—online dating, for example—which allows for more control over who they interact with and offers the possibility to connect with people who have similar values and interests.
4. Focus on Personal Growth and Stability
Since the person in question is a freelancer, it’s essential they focus on their personal growth, both professionally and emotionally. They should continue working on developing their skills, building financial stability, and pursuing their passions. A confident, stable individual is more attractive to potential partners and will have a more grounded sense of what they need from a relationship.
If the family is unsupportive in terms of emotional, physical, or financial help, this person may need to seek support outside of the family. Connecting with mentors, friends, or professional networks can provide a sense of community and stability.
5. Dealing with Jealousy and Criticism
The jealousy or mockery from the big brother or other family members may be rooted in insecurity or a sense of competition. It's important not to internalize these negative attitudes. While it can be painful, the person should remind themselves that their journey is unique and that not everyone will understand or support their choices.
If family dynamics are toxic, it might be worth considering therapy or counseling (even if it’s just for the individual) to help manage these emotional challenges.
6. Astrology and Cultural Factors
While astrology is important in some cultures, it’s also worth reflecting on how much weight it should carry in choosing a life partner. Compatibility in terms of values, goals, and communication might be far more important than astrological signs. If astrology isn’t aligning, the person should consider whether this is something they can compromise on.
7. Patience and Self-Compassion
Finding the right partner takes time. There’s no rush, and the person shouldn’t feel pressured into accepting just any proposal. It’s important to remain patient and allow things to unfold naturally, focusing on self-care and self-discovery during this process.
8. Consider Support Systems Outside of the Family
If the family is not providing emotional or financial help, it might be necessary to seek support from friends, community groups, or even professional therapists or coaches. Sometimes a third-party perspective can offer insights and help navigate family dynamics more effectively.
Conclusion:
In short, I’d suggest focusing on personal clarity, building emotional and financial stability, and assessing the family dynamics carefully. The individual in question should also feel empowered to make decisions based on their own desires and needs, rather than solely on family pressures or astrology mismatches. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it’s crucial to enter it with the right partner, for the right reasons.
Do you feel any of these suggestions might resonate with the situation you’re describing, or is there a specific part of the process that’s causing the most stress right now?